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Of course, it seems very hard because there are so many barriers between two of you. But you can get a Chinese lady's heart easier if you follow our instruction.
If you are still contacting with her
- Please state your occupation (job) in your first letter. Most Chinese ladies are very interest in your job.
- Please state your annual income in your first letter. We say this does not mean all Chinese ladies are very found of money but it is a truth that if she marry you and go to your country, you need give her a good living condition. If you can't, why she leave so many friends and family members to follow you? All Chinese ladies have learnt how to face reality.
- All ladies in this world like little gifts, we need not explain why here, and you can know more if you go to www.gift2cn.com to send gifts to her, the website offer you lots of flowers and cakes and chocolates. They offer Free delivery and she can get you gift in the same day.
- Remember send letter to her everyday! She does not care how long it is. You need send at least a short message to tell her you are busy.
- If she is not good at English or oral English, it is important for her to learn English and it will help your relationship in the future. She can attend some English lesson for several months. The price of English lesson are vary from $50-$100 per month in Nanning. It depends on the quality of teaching. We suggest you contact rx311@126.com or 0086-13977132052 for more information. You can tell your love to contact him. If you are generous to send this fee to her or to the teacher from Western Union, she will appreciate it and her feeling will glow very fast.
If you take a trip with her in China
Now, finally, you have come to China! When you stay with her, your generous will give good impression on her. Please give some money to her to handle some expenditure in china. She will have a good feeling on you if you do this.
It is a good idea because you do not know the price index of Nanning city or other city in china. She will save money for you in taxis and in restaurants. Furthermore, your money is much safer in her bag because there are always a few bad guys anywhere. She knows how to ask for help. (Although china property crime is much lower than any other country but if only and so but is a but)
When you go to some public place with her, you too can walk hand in hand. Now Chinese will feel very strange if you walk together but walk apart. You had better not kiss her in public, for example, in store and in street. However, if you hug and kiss her in a park or other places where there is only few people, she will be shy but appreciate that.
Get up earlier in the hotel and maybe you can find some flower on the side of the road. You know what I mean, don¡¯t you?
Buy some gift for her family members.
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